No actually ,that's not it.
I mean when people who have been doing what is consiter "safer sex: condoms, dental dams, etc" to help reduce the risk of HIV and other STD's, hep. When HIV/AIDS first hit SF, there was this big push for safer sex. There were posters, shirts, safer sex sluts, stuff like that .
Well many years later, some of these people who were using condoms/safer sex stuff, are now putting themselves at risk, because they are having some burnt out, because they have had ; "use condoms , besafe," stuff like this shoved down there throats.
Actually its more that the people who were around when it first hit. I think Gays/MSM's/IDU get it shove down there throat a lot.

So I try not to do it as much, but there has to be something to keep people engaged in keeping themselves safe!
I know it is so much more that just saying hey , its safer for you if you use condoms and sexual disclosure. There is alot of shame and when it comes to HIV/STDS , sex . So much goes into who we are in the world. Our family, culture, peers, maybe someone grew up in a sex Neg enviroment, internal homophobia, internal racism, some trama . That has made us not feel good or comfident about ourselves. Then if we are also self medicating on top of that....
Sorry I just got home from work, I need to get off my soap box.
Well I hope I explained it right, even if I did not spell everything right lol